"The Church presumes every marriage
(Catholic, Protestant, Jewish, non-believers),
to be a valid marriage until the opposite is proven".


John R. McGann, Bishop of Rockville Centre; Official position Paper

The Internal Forum
The Internal Forum, or so-called "Good Conscience" solution, is a second method of returning to the good graces of the Church. The important distinction is between the External Forum, made up of the Tribunal (Court) system, and the Internal Forum, which refers to the individual's relationship with God.

The Tribunals are, of necessity, concerned with circumstances that can be objectively proven. Because of the general presumption of the validity of marriages, Tribunal judges cannot speculate outside the record in an annulment proceeding.

But even the church is aware that a Tribunal decision and the truth may not always coincide. This could happen in any number of situations. For example, perhaps your spouse confessed privately to you an intention to never have children or remain faithful, but refuses to admit this to the Tribunal. Or perhaps witnesses who could have proved your case have died, cannot be located, or refuse to testify. Perhaps documents or other evidence necessary for your case are for some reason unobtainable.

You then have no way of proving what you know to be a fact, that your marriage was invalid. The Tribunal, as a court of law, must be presented with sufficient evidence to prove annulment grounds. If the evidence is not presented, a favorable ruling is not possible. The External Forum cannot help you in your rightful attempt to be free of this invalid marriage. Then again, your petition may be within the jurisdiction of a Tribunal that is practically non functioning or simply does not grant annulments as readily as others. Suppose, for example, your particular Tribunal has an 18 month backlog of cases, therefore you are not to consider any wedding or bridal plans for the next year and a half. This is where the Internal Forum becomes useful. This is an official process which The Old Catholic Church of Utrecht, Holland has granted us the authority to utilize this method to effect Official True Catholic Reconciliation.


A New Life. A Second Chance!
"Our initial request for the Sacrament had been refused by the parish Priest and his decision upheld by our Diocese due to a very minor impediment. We would like to thank you for the wonderful ceremony. Father Trees officiated at our Wedding on October 24, 1993. The ceremony was done in excellent taste and in a spiritual and loving manner. Please extend our sincere thanks to the hierarchy of the Ordre for handling our special situation with love and dignity. Our guests had nothing but praise for the manner in which the priest handled the ceremony and related to our guests."

Carolyn and Pat   Long Island, New York


An important element of the Internal Forum is the quiet consultation with a Bishop, often beginning in the privacy of the confessional, regardless, all information related to the Cleric is confidential and related under the Sacramental Seal.

The Bishop, acting as the judge in what is now a Tribunal of Mercy For Catholic Reconciliation, will do what he deems necessary to help you return to full communion.

-- Dispensations (waiving of a Doctrinal requirement) may be extended by the Ordre when certain impediments are in place that create difficulty for the applicants to meet the requirements of the Faith.
- To find out more information about Dispensations, please (click here)!

The Roman Catholic (Latin Rite) has always accepted the possibility of this solution, though for its own reasons, obviously wishes you to use the External Forum.


YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH
THE CHURCH
VS.
YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH
GOD.

Perhaps the most graphic Biblical use of the Internal Forum is the story of the woman, charged with adultery, and brought to Jesus by the Pharisees for judgment. They remind him that under the law, of Moses, that it is stated that an adulteress must be stoned. They wanted him to make the religious legal pronouncement giving them the permission necessary to carry out the sentence of death. But Jesus stooped down and wrote with his finger in the dust. His attention appears to be totally focused upon this solitary activity. But when they continued asking him for his decision, he said unto them, "He among you that is without sin, let him cast the first stone." He continues writing in the dust ignoring them.

This is one of the most remarkably naturalistic details in the entire Gospels, this silent, brooding man, staring at the dust, writing in it with his finger. The Pharisees are shamed into walking away, one by one, leaving Jesus alone with the woman. He asks the woman, "Does no man condemn thee"? And she replies, "No Man". And Jesus replies to her, "Neither do I condemn thee: go thy way, and sin no more." (John 7:53 to John 8:11). The manner in which this narrative is related is fraught with both mystical and practical meaning. Jesus deals in a unique and personal way with what should have been the simplest of everyday problems covered by the Jewish Law.

Jesus as always, considers, not the law, but the individuals relationship with God. While using the law as a guideline, he always tempers his decisions with Christian charity and mercy for the individual.


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